I grew up in an urban environment, but the Russian spirit, loving real Russian steam bath, not extinguished in me. So on his summer cottage, I decided to build a small bathhouse. Of course, while there was construction, I dreamed that I would go there with his family. But it turned out that the guys I have now visited in splendid isolation.
Naturally, with my plans is not correlated. To say that the claims do not help and only caused even more irritation on the part of the wife, I think, is not necessary.
Wife categorically refuses to go along with me. Even when our children were very young, she would not let me. Now especially do not want to hear about my presence in the steam room. But I really do not understand this, because sweating together and more convenient, and more fun, it somehow brings.
One to do it somehow not in a rush, do not have that pleasure. And sometimes it is elementary uncomfortable or back of soap or a broom to beat. Tosca, in general.
I decided to talk to the righteous, and these are the answers received:
- She prefers to bathe alone, it is for her a kind of meditation, she ponders what happened this week, new plans;
- She is taking a bath for longer than I have. She explains that she has a lot of cosmetics to be used. For her bath - a spa, in which she goes regularly. For me, it's just a way to warm up and rinse. When I wonder why it all this nonsense cosmetic, because she is so beautiful, the conflict starts. This case does not help;
- The last reason is the intimate undertones. I'm not interested. For me extremely hygienic bath pleasure, for everything else there is a normal comfortable bed. A hot bath, you're both sweaty, dirty, in general, not the same attitude. But my wife does not understand it and thinks I'm cheating on her.
I think that most girls who read this text, will stand on the side of my wife. I just want to be a little closer to his wife, and a sauna than anything else has to spiritual conversations, which is lacking in everyday life.
I have tried many ways to convince his wife to bathe together, but it is in any. Perhaps someone faced with the same problem and cope with it? Share the wisdom of life, and that I have the entire head broke in search of solutions.